Often I chat with people who are so frustrated with an area of their life.
They want change.
It is often these same people who blame the problem or situation on everyone else.
‘My leader won’t give me the opportunity.’
‘They just won’t listen to me.’
‘There is no one out there who wants to date me.’
‘My friends don’t spend time with me.’
‘I can’t trust anyone, they always hurt me.’
They, them, those…
It is easy to blame everyone else on your current unhappiness.
It is hard to look inward and confront that in our own lives that needs to change.
I find in my life, whenever I hear myself blaming others, I stop myself and ask ‘what is my part to play in this scenario.’
Confront the truth.
Ask others to help you find that truth.
And listen.
