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Wanderlust

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Wanderlust; a strong desire for or impulse to wander or travel and explore the world.

I am obsessed with travel.

With a two year old and a 24 week old brewing, I am on a self imposed travel ban and am living vicariously through Pinterest.

I am a firm believer in travel as a creative leader, because it expands your horizons, challenges your beliefs and just generally makes you uncomfortable.

When was the last time you travelled to a place you have never been before?

When was the last time you sat on the floor of a family whose upbringing, beliefs and lives are completely foreign to you?

This is a proving ground for leadership development.

Add a few people as your traveling companions and your on your way to leadership 101.

10 thoughts about travel that make you a better leader.

1) The best innovation comes from the catalogue of vivid memories in your life. If you do the same thing every day, how can you collect new stories to innovate from?

2) Exposing yourself to new cultures, different thoughts, unusual customs and pressure, challenges your character in ways not much else in life does.

3) Despite the travel class (champagne or cattle), everyone stands at the luggage carousel and waits together. A lack of humility in leadership, is intensely challenged in luggage queues and customs lines.

4) Taste something you have never tasted before. Boring food palettes equal boring communicators. Leadership is Communication.

5) There is something about being stuck on a plane as a leader with no access to phones, internet or staff. You are forced to read, watch movies, meet new people or sleep. All things that leaders need plenty of.

6) Stories are created in the melting pot of tiredness, miscommunication and culture. Great stories equal a great leader.

7) Travel forces you to listen. Travel forces you to ask questions. Travel forces you to meet new people. All traits that busy leaders often struggle with.

8) Did I mention customs queues? Reminding us all that we are not in control of everything.

9) You are more likely to visit a museum, art gallery or read a new book in a different country. All spaces that develop and offer free thinking.

10) It is very important to break routine as a leader and find a fresh approach to those problems that remain unsolved.

As a leader if you cannot travel overseas at least wander around your own city with the eyes of a tourist.

These are just some of the reasons why I’m obsessed with driving new ways to places I go everyday and traveling to countries and places I have never been too before.

Speak tomorrow.

Amanda

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The struggle is part of the story

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I have just got news this afternoon that one of my favourites is in surgery tonight after an accident at work. My heart and mind are so for her surgery and a great report coming back from the hospital.

We only saw each other on Friday night at our connect group and were so excited about new possibilities this year.

Way before this report came in this afternoon, my heart has been reflecting around this thought all day. I can’t stop thinking about it.

The struggle is part of the story.

I hate it when terrible things happen to people I love.

I despise suffering and loss.

I am mourned by the challenge of everyday life for my dearest friends.

But I also know when adversity is thrown at humankind, there is a tenacity that brings strength that nothing else can.

Human spirit rises.

People are changed in the challenge.

Adversity overcomes.

When life throws terrible seasons at us, times of grief, times of sickness, times of trouble…It is so easy to focus on the struggle and forget the forming it brings in this season of our lives.

I don’t think grief and sorrow and pain are a lesson or are fun or purposed.

No.

I just know that in the midst of the struggle it changes us.

We become.

The struggle becomes part of the story.

If you are in a place of struggle right now.

Allow the struggle to form a new story. A great story. One of victory and release.

Find a way through the struggle to a place of peace and restoration.

Embrace the wrestle and let it change you for the better.

Find your story.

Praying for so many people at the moment.

Love always

Amanda

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my muse

beanie twoWhen people say I am obsessed with crochet, it cracks me up.

Yes I am an addict, but for a very different reason than what you would expect.

It is my muse.

I don’t walk into a room with crocheted things and swoon. For me, crochet is a form of meditation. One could say it is my creative thinking, melting, stirring pot.

My solo brainstorming session.

The team of creatives in my head get together and have a meeting, whilst my fingers twist.

I dream.

I think.

I forgive.

I let go.

I design.

I innovate.

It is a mindless activity that recreates possibility and inspires me onwards.

What is a mindless activity that helps you create?

We all need a muse. Mine is all about homemade goodness.

I love all things homemade. I am not fierce about it. Where I shame others into partaking in my pleasures.

But all things home made make me feel homey.

This is what I have been playing around with creatively this week:

A new beanie for Max: the pattern is found here

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A new hoodie for max as well, with the chunkiest wool I could find: pattern here.

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I learnt a new stitch whilst making the beanie above, so I have started a rug for a friend that I promised over a year ago and also I have been making my own cream cheese from scratch: find the recipe here.

homemade cream cheese

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we all need words

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This morning I found a little note tucked inside my bible from one of my best friends. She lives in New Zealand and the last little season has been a big one for all of us.

This note said this;

‘I get a sense of a yacht on the open water, sails trimmed, voyage ready = a fresh wind rising to carry you on your way. As your friend I pray that in the midst of all you do for others you would continue to nurture and value yourself. You are very precious and very much loved.’

The letter goes on with words that are deep nourishment for my soul.

We all need words.

Especially in times of stretch and seasons of doubt.

I found my years as a single woman, overwhelming, fearful, exciting, brilliant, purposed and so much more. If I knew what I do know now though, I would have been profoundly impacted and lived with more emancipation. What if I could have read a letter that was written in retrospect? Would that have helped me break the shackles and live beyond today.

To dream.

To live emancipated beyond all the doubts?

I am looking for 14 more people to write a letter to themselves before they were married.

We all learn lessons with retrospect that as a young adult we wish that we had have overcome.

A simple letter, that encourages, that speaks life, that shares the lessons learnt. The only framework, at some point write your age now and your age when you got married.

Here is one of my favourites that has come in so far.

Dear single self,

You are a child of wonder and untapped creativity, adventure and strength.

Do not be in such a hurry to grow up and become someone’s wife. Find out who you are, explore the world, explore people, taste from a wide range of cups.

Travel – please get on a plane and go somewhere!!!

Let go – stop trying to control every aspect of your life and just let some things happen and GO WITH IT.

Stop trying to always do the right thing. Sometimes there is no such thing as the right thing, the right time or Mr Right…. There could be a Mr Right-Now – who you will miss because you are so busy looking for Mr Right.

Find out about you – there is so much to you – you don’t need another half, you are whole on your own.

Learn a language, read books, take cooking classes.

Learn to paint, Spend more time at the ocean, it feeds your soul.

Spend money on shoes.  Enjoy the wide variety of people on this planet. Find out who makes you excited, who makes you laugh, who makes you think, who makes you feel beautiful. Enjoy all the experiences presented to you without worrying about the future. Enjoy yourself with a wide range of different people. They will bring out different things in you – many of which you may not have known you had. Let yourself be loved by others, and love others. Maybe have your heart broken and rebuilt. It will give you strength.

Cherish yourself. Love yourself, enjoy you. Feel whole. Feel complete. Life does not begin when you are married. Life is now. Enjoy every minute.

Being married is only one path and to take that path you give up many others. Once you are married and then a mother, you limit many things and experiences. You love being both, but your world reduces, so enjoy the wide open spaces of being single. Live life to the fullest, capture each day and find out what an amazing, beautiful, strong, creative and intelligent woman you are.

Realise that the man you marry is very, very lucky to have you.

I love you.

S

I’d love to have your cherished words as a part of this journey.

All my love

Amanda

Starting from today, I have a new framework for my blog.

Let’s see where this journey takes us.

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Look up

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We have spent most of this weekend at the beach. Playing, flying kites, visiting with friends and just being.

I love this photo of Maximus. He is holding his dad’s hand and also looking up to the kite he is holding.

This photo reminds me, that we all need selah (to pause and calmly reflect on things), as well as just look up.

Are you searching for peace?

Let the weary come and be made whole.

Let those who need rest, find it in the midst of any circumstance.

Let those who are burdened lay it down.

Look up.

Need to go wash the sand off my feet.

Speak tomorrow

Amanda