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Simplify

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I spent most of yesterday with one of my dearest friends Bonnie.

I came to the end of the hours of endless conversation, beautiful reflection and honest moments, so grateful for the gift of true friends.

The ones you can be completely yourself with.

The ones who understand your heart, your motive and soul and don’t hold tightly to the amount of times we have seen each other but the quality of the moments we have shared.

I have learnt in my last couple of years of novice motherhood that friendships change significantly and that is truly okay.

I have learnt to hold looser my expectations on my friends but then cherish the moments I have with them.

To call and ring and keep in touch when I am able, but to also think good thoughts and pray for them when I can’t.

To simplify my expectations of people and adore the precious times that I get to hang simply with them.

Are you holding on too tight to people?

Do you struggle to maintain friendships over the change of seasons?

Have you found yourself friendless?

Maybe there are some reasons for that.

Maybe you need to simplify your expectations and take time to just be with people when you can.

All of our lives can be complex at times, but really do we need our friendships to be as well?

Life is way too short.

Live light.

Let go of the guilt, the hurt and the manipulation and enjoy people for who they are.

Love extravagantly but hold on lightly.

Live a little simpler in your friendships and you might surprise yourself how many new people you will have around you at the end of this year.

A

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Beauty everywhere

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This little plate is a present from one of my dearest friends and all day I have been consumed with it’s beauty. The detail, the fine proportions, it’s clarity and so much more. I went to the shops to do the groceries today and I bought myself a bunch of oriental lilies, their smell, their look in my bathroom and lounge room, one word beauty.

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Beauty is just as important in our daily sustenance as bread. Simple, pure, unadulterated peace.

This quote helps me in days of distress.

Beauty is a balm that heals.

Are you confused?

Are you lonely?

Are you needing solace?

Find something beautiful from nature or that is inspired by nature and I have often found in my own walk, my heart lifts again.

We all need a place of restoration.

We were designed to live in a place of peace.

I often find in my life this peace is encouraged and motivated with places of beauty.

I think our interpretation of beauty has become plasticised. We think beauty is perfection. We believe beauty is produced, manufactured.

I think the most beautiful places of rest, are filled with imperfection and a raw condition.

Find your place of nurture.

You will live inspired if you seek moments like these.

Love

Me

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less clicking more making

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This little pair of booties took me less than an hour to do.

When I create something, whether it  be a yummy nutritious dinner, crochet, paint, draw…Anything. If I produce something from scratch I feel an immense sense of satisfaction and purpose.

Unfortunately we live in a culture where we live off the success of others and we spend our days comparing and looking online at other people’s creations.

Often I am inspired when I see your bits and bobs on instagram, but if I spend more time clicking, than I spend making, something inside me starts to go a little loopy.

Our creativity becomes watered down by comparison to others inspiration.

It is hard to live a life inspired, when you are constantly comparing yourself to others.

This blog for example, I don’t read many blogs regularly, its not because I think this blog is better than others, far from it, but when I spend heaps of time online on other peoples musings, I find my own thoughts crowding.

A quick surf, a simple delighting in others thoughts is inspiring but too much and your brain starts to crowd and it affects your own output.

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Somedays I just need to pull out a normal book and put my phone and Ipad in a far away cupboard pull out my creative pursuits and get lost there.

Do you need to write?

Do you want to create?

Then take time away from online, make yourself a nice drink and begin again something from scratch. The tension and the fulfilment of its creation is one of the most satisfying things.

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The reason why?

I believe we were all created to produce good things.

Yes you.

Goodness lies dormant inside of you awaiting production.

See ya.

Amanda

12/365 ( I am drawing every day in my visual diary for 2014, you can follow the journey of mine and others by #inspire14 . It’s all about living inspired this year.)

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Inspired living

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I stood at the fridge today, one that is pretty full thinking,’maybe we should just get take away tonight.’

A regular thought that runs through my pregnant mind of late. Hot ovens on a 44 degree summer day, no one’s got time for that.

The problem is I am trying to eat well this year and am determined to see this pregnancy through well.

I have realised that sometimes I can be inspired in my writing and my creativity, but very uninspired at the same time in my wife/ mum/ house duties.

It is so much easier to sit down and write a blog post, than to take the same time to plan well for my families food and well being.

I want my inspiration in 2014 (#inspire14) to encompass every part of my world: every part of my families life.

It doesn’t mean I will always feel like it, because its sacrificial. It takes effort, it takes time and sometimes even the fact that I got dressed and brushed my teeth is a major achievement in this Mumma’s world.

I decided today that I would add to my 2014 thoughts, to cook through one of my cook books, to keep my meals fresh for team V. The book I have decided to cook through for 2014 is called ‘Falling Cloudberries’ by Tessa Kiros, it has recipes from all over the world. Recipes that are fresh and healthy and diverse.

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I really do believe an inspired life should equal an inspired wife. Our creativity and inspiration needs to be holistic. We can’t compartmentalise the things we love doing and ignore the other things that should be priorities in our lives.

We are whole humans, not part creatives.

Are you giving too much time to some things and not enough to others?

Don’t let guilt take over, just find something that inspires you in that realm as well.

Follow our journey and #inspire14 as well, if you want some accountability for the things you are endeavouring to change this new year. I have been doing a visual journal every day, I am not a great artist, but it is helping me think differently and find inspiration in new ways.inspired life 4

Inspired living is what I am aiming for.

Capturing life in its fullest.

Amanda

 

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Bread in common

20140110-122508.jpgI am just finishing the last morsel of bread from a loaf I bought from the most endearing bakery I have ever encountered. Bread from ‘The Yallingyup Bakery’, is hand crafted, traditional wood fired. It is baked fresh every afternoon and available from the back yard operation every day at 4pm. We snuck each day down to the bakery awaiting the wholemeal sourdough and the honey fruit bread whilst camping south of Western Australia.

The daily ritual, which involved bread being sneaked from its paper bag as we trailed the bush paths home, was one of my favourite memories of my recent trip.

The company has opened a new restaurant in Fremantle that I can’t wait to go and eat at ‘Bread in Common‘.

The name of this new venture, got me thinking about the beauty and the raw appeal of community. It also has made me think, this is truly what the church is meant to be.

The basics of community that is talked about constantly in the bible, is about bread in common. It’s about sharing that which we have with another. Jesus left very little specific instructions from his teachings (most of his teaching was in parables and stories open to interpretation), but one instruction he gave was for the church to live in community, to live in communion. Communion meaning common union.

I often smile when I get people get so over the top about music being the only form of worship from the bible, when Jesus sat and ate with more people than he did break out a big band, fancy lights and a 4 point sermon.

When was the last time you sat down completely vulnerable in front of someone and just enjoyed their company as a form of worship, as a form of the church?

To take a simple cup of red wine (which would have been freely available) and a common loaf of bread and to break it together offering peace, hospitality and life.

How often do you share the basics, the simple things with people you want to do life with well?

Do you catch your dinner on the run with your family, whilst watching cartoons and cleaning up the duties of the day?

Do you spend time with your nearest and dearest, just breaking bread in common, for no reason other than their company?

When was the last time you invited someone over for tea and toast?

We were created to live in common union. A life lived in community is never without its problems, its difficulty and its challenge, but it is the place of growth that gives us a satisfaction that we are living the life that we were created to live.

Do you feel disconnected?

Do you feel isolated?

Grab a bottle of wine, a loaf of yummy bread, some delightful cheese and some cured meat, set the table and invite someone over.

Common union.

Community.

The raw, the frustrating, the glorious, the beauty, the pain, the challenge.

Camping this week, bringing life back to the basics, with friends, my community, has got me thinking deeply about what is important to me, in what I am looking for in community.

Don’t close yourself off to the power of living life in common with others.

Break bread with someone this week, it will change your days.

Love

Amanda

 

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